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Embrace Life, It Happens For Us, Not To Us

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If you find a life that is smooth sailing, please share it with all of us because I go by the good book which tells me the following found in John 16:33 (msg) I’ve told you all this so that trusting me, you will be unshakable and assured, deeply at peace. In this godless world you will continue to experience difficulties. But take heart! I’ve conquered the world.”

In this godless world you will continue to experience difficulties:

Life is a journey filled with ups and downs, joys and sorrows, victories and defeats. Often, I’ve questioned the circumstances I’ve had to face, wondering why certain things happen at all. However, there is a profound shift in my perspective when I remember the quote, not sure where I got it from but it says—Life is happening for us, not to us. This shift was empowered even further when I also recall John 16:33 quoted above. It helps me to navigate through challenges with resilience, embrace the present moment, and draw positivity toward myself. By adopting this perspective, I have and likewise, you, can transform your outlook on life and tap into a world that is filled with numerous opportunities that allow us to live fulfilled.

But take heart! I’ve conquered the world.

The Power of Perspective

Our perspective shapes our reality and when we view life as happening to us, we inadvertently position ourselves as passive recipients, subject to the whims of fate. This mindset can lead to feelings of victimhood, helplessness, and stagnation. On the other hand, perceiving life as happening for us empowers us to take control of our experiences and responses and view challenges as opportunities for growth, gaining wisdom, and finding ourselves. This shift in perspective enables us to seek the silver linings and uncover the hidden blessings that lie within every situation.

Embracing Growth Through Adversity

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Adversity is an inherently human experience and we have the most tremendous potential for growth during our most challenging moments, I am sure that’s not new to you. We must adopt the belief that life is happening for us to approach obstacles as stepping stones rather than roadblocks. Each setback encountered is now a learning opportunity that causes us to adapt and build resilience. We gain a deeper understanding of our own capabilities and the strength within us to overcome any obstacle that comes our way. By embracing the lessons hidden within adversity, we unlock the door to personal transformation.

Living in the Present Moment

One of the greatest gifts of perceiving life as happening for us is the ability to live in the present moment, something I am big on. When we stop resisting the circumstances of our lives and recognise them as part of our unique journey, we become fully present. Instead of dwelling on the past or anxiously worrying about the future, we cultivate a deeper sense of gratitude for the present. We recognize that every moment holds the potential for growth, joy, and connection, immersing ourselves in the here and now, opens us up to the abundance of positivity that surrounds us.


Attracting Positivity

I remember in an interview being asked what was my philosophy in life to which I responded I had two but I will share one which is quite fitting here. The energy we exude/radiate is the energy we will experience. Living the perspective that life is happening for us causes us to emit a positive vibration that draws positive experiences toward us. By focusing on the opportunities and possibilities inherent in every situation, we manifest more joy, abundance, and fulfillment. This does not mean ignoring or suppressing negative emotions; rather, it is about consciously choosing to seek the positive aspects in even the most challenging circumstances. By shifting our focus to the positives, we invite them to multiply in our lives.


A huge beauty of life is that it is a journey of constant growth and self-discovery. By adopting the perspective that life is happening for us, not to us, we tap into our inner power and transform the way we navigate the world. This mindset enables us to view challenges as opportunities, live in the present moment, and attract positivity into our lives.

Remember, it is within our ability to rewrite our stories, change our outlook, and shape our own destinies. So let us embrace life’s twists and turns, for they are the stepping stones that guide us toward a life filled with purpose, joy, and endless possibilities.

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