Have you ever been stuck in a rut? Not sure if you are coming or going. Not sure what the next step is? Well, welcome to the club. Most of us have been there; we know what we want to accomplish, and yet we cannot bridge that gap where our mind and heart know it, into our reality.

How do we translate our thinking into consistent, dedicated, focused action and ultimately manifest it into our lives and our present-day reality? How do we move beyond the obstacles that hold us from our ideal world? I dare say we need to overcome ourselves within the following context.

We have heard words or deeds from our parents, siblings, friends, and co-workers that may have placed limits on our creativity, and us thinking that we can be outstanding and do what is in our hearts. Or, maybe it’s us when we compare ourselves with others and then tell ourselves that we could never be them or be like them. That is the truth; we can never be like anyone else because we are unique, made with unique abilities, to do our unique things in this world. We need to get over ourselves by identifying, then removing the limiting thoughts unintentionally created within our psyche.

How do we overcome the negative thoughts that have been embedded into our subconscious – limiting us? How do we become our best self, WELL – here are some ways:

Become what we want to see in others

• This is so needed in the world today. We are always quick to complain about others. What if we took a step back to assess the kind of energy we are putting out there? What if we are receiving what we are transmitting? Something to consider!

Intentionally repeat biblical affirmation

• Such as, we are conquerors through Christ Jesus. Write out scriptures that speak to our situation and become those scriptures. Repeat them constantly and believe them.

Forgive and forget

• Sometimes we say we will forgive but will not forget. Hello? Our inability to forget keeps us stuck in the hurt.

Write our ideal life 

• Sound too much like a cliche? Nothing could be further from the truth. We need to record our vision by writing it down. When we write it, it then becomes believable and achievable! It will help if we can see the vision constantly. Do not be surprised when it finally becomes a reality in our present lives.

Pray and ask God for his leading 

• Ultimately, he knows what is best for us.

Believe 

• Have unswerving faith that we can accomplish all our goals and dreams. We want to, so start believing you can!

BeyondWomen it is time to start living and become our best selves!